Daily living help: Support with personal care, cooking, and housework.
Money and legal help: Support with benefit forms, wills, or other legal plans. (A will is a legal paper that says who should get your things after you die.)
Getting around: Lifts to appointments or help using transport services.
Home maintenance: Light cleaning, gardening, or looking after pets.
Communication: Helping speak to doctors, nurses, family, or friends.
Planning for pets
Pets are an important part of many families. They help us feel happy and loved.
It is important to make a plan so your pets are cared for when you are not able to look after them. Some charities can make sure your pet has a safe home in the future.
Emotional support is just as important as physical care. It can help someone feel calmer and less worried. It also helps family and friends cope.
Emotional support means:
Listening
Being kind
Letting the person talk about how they feel
Not judging them
It is okay for someone to feel sad, scared, or angry. Talking about these feelings can help them feel more in control. It can also help them talk about what matters to them, such as:
How they want to be cared for
What is important at the end of life
What helps them feel safe and respected
Giving love, time, and space to talk brings comfort to everyone involved.
Active Listening: Giving the person time and space to talk freely, without judgement.
Validation: Letting them know their feelings are real and understandable.
Comforting Touch: Gentle touch, like holding their hand or a soft hug, can help them feel safe.
Sharing memories: Looking at old photos, talking about past events, or listening to favourite music can bring comfort.
Spiritual Support: Talking to a faith leader or spiritual guide, if they want this, can provide comfort and meaning.
Professional help: Suggesting counselling or therapy with trained workers who support people with life. limiting illness or end of life needs.
Knowing what to expect
It can help to know what might happen in the last days and hours of life. Everyone is different, but there are some common signs and changes.
