When someone is very ill and near the end of life, they may need help with everyday things.
This kind of practical support can make life more comfortable and help the person feel cared for and respected.
Practical support can include things like cooking meals, cleaning, helping with washing or dressing, and sorting out paperwork or appointments. It also means making sure they have what they need, like medicines or special equipment.
This kind of help is good for the person who is ill and for their family and friends. It means carers can spend more time giving love and comfort. It helps families feel closer and gives them time to share special moments together.
Daily living assistance:Helping with personal care, preparing meals, and managing household tasks.
Financial and legal support: Assisting with benefits applications, wills, and other legal arrangements.
Transportation and mobility:Providing rides to appointments and facilitating access to transportation services.
Home maintenance:Assisting with light housework, gardening, and pet care.
Communication and information:Helping to communicate with healthcare providers, family, and friends.
Emotional Support
Emotional support is just as important as physical care. It helps people feel calmer, less worried, and more at peace. It also helps their family and friends.
Emotional support means listening, being kind, and letting the person talk about how they feel. It’s okay for them to be sad, scared, or angry. Just being there and not judging can make a big difference.
It can also help the person talk about what matters to them—like what they want at the end of life, how they want to be cared for, and what is important to them. This helps them feel more in control and respected.
Giving love, time, and space to talk can bring comfort and help everyone feel more connected.
Active Listening: Creating a safe space for the person to express their thoughts and feelings without judgment.
Validation: Acknowledging and validating their emotions, even if they are difficult or uncomfortable.
Comforting Touch: Providing gentle physical touch, such as a hand on the shoulder or a hug, can offer comfort and reassurance.
Reminiscence: Looking through old photos, sharing memories, or listening to favourite music can evoke positive emotions and create a sense of connection.
Spiritual Support: Connecting with religious or spiritual leaders, if desired, can provide comfort and meaning.
Referral to Professionals: Suggesting counselling or therapy with trained professionals who specialize in palliative care or end-of-life support.
Pets are and important part of our family. They help us feel happy and loved.
It’s important to make a plan so they are looked after when you are not there. You can sign up with a charity that will make sure someone cares for your pet after you are gone.
It can be helpful to know what will happen in the last days and hours of life. Every experience can be different, but there are some common signs or changes that people experience.